Heartbkreaks.

 First Stage.

     They say that fighting in any relationship is just normal coz there are really things that both of you won't agree with. Sometimes you fight because of something like dates and movies but it's okay since we are all different and everyone of us likes different things. Someone may also be a reason why you fight because there are just so many people to be jealous with. But I know that in the end, one will always admit defeat because it's easier to lose an argument than to lose the person you are arguing with. So you can always say "Sorry..." then "I love you" 

Second stage.

     In any relationship, it's hard to decide whether to walk away or try harder. It's like answering your final  Math exam. If you don't try your best, then you might fail, but if you try harder, then you might pass. You decide. Do you want to let go of everything or do you want to continue even though you know it may bring you heartaches. It's just a matter of trust and a little bit of pixie dust. A matter of holding on or letting go.

Third Stage.

      Distance. It's hard when you start to create a distance between the two of you. It maybe to give each other a space of your own or it maybe also because you want to know if you can still live without each other. It can be a good or a bad thing. And creating enough distance from each other can help you grow separately. But make sure it's a distance that when you reach back to each other, you can still hold each other's hand. Because when you start to create a distance, you can either maintain that distance because you know it can help you both or you can stretch it out day by day without knowing it because you already enjoy the distance and the feeling of not being with each other.

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      I hate hearing stories about heartbreaks or letting go especially when they come from my friends. I just can't take hearing them tell me how they broke up with their boyfriend and how hard it is to move on. Let's admit it, we all have stories about heartbreaks and hearing the same stories from your friends makes it worse because you know that they're experiencing the same thing that you had experienced and you know exactly how hard feeling like that was. The feeling is, well, you name it.

     Heartbreaks are painful but with every heartbreak, we learn. It teaches us some things like love hurts and everyone you love can't love you back. And it may bring us heartaches but sometimes it also teaches us some important things in life. ♥

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